Man, I love turkey and stuffing…..
Ostensibly, the reason for Thanksgiving was to give thanks for what you have. I try to be grateful and recognize that gratitude on more than just Thanksgiving.
I am very aware that when someone does something for me they had a choice – expend that resource (money, time, interest, property, concern, emotion, etc.) on me or keep it for themselves (or someone else). As a result, I always try to be grateful, express my gratitude, and make sure they know I recognize that they had a choice and they chose me. Seems kinda basic to me.
At the moment (and this can change in the blink of an eye), I have a place to live, a job, a vehicle, a couple close friends, some money in the bank, food in the cupboards, and a margin of safety from all the bad things that lurk out there. Sure, it can change in an instant…but right now Im sitting in my warm house with electricity, hot water, food, arms, communications, clean clothing, and toilets that flush….and I am grateful for all of it.
I don’t want to say I worked hard for it all…I am, by nature, a really lazy person..doing just enough is usually my standard….but there were a lot of times I did things I didn’t want to do, denied myself things I wanted, and put my instant gratification desires on hold. And thats why I can take a hot shower, cook up a cheeseburger, listen to Spotify while I clean guns, and lead a calmer life than what I probably deserve.
I think part of preparedness is always being quite cognizant of just how tenuous our lives can be. We know that theres a future where we’re huddled around a campfire of burning 2×4’s where the tornado took the house, where we look in the fridge and theres nothing but a box of baking soda and ketchup, where we spend hours a day looking for a job as we watch our bank accounts dwindle, where we feel unsafe, insecure, and hopeless. Thats why we prepare…to mitigate those events, to reduce our fragility, to increase our resilience. And when you’re aware of what the bad side of life could look like, it tends to make you more aware and grateful for the good side that you’re experiencing.
So I hope everyone enjoys the holiday. Have an awesome time with the family and friends, eat turkey, watch football, drink and be merry. But at some point, either alone or with your close ones, recognize what you have and appreciate it. Maybe it isn’t all you want, maybe life is on a rocky path, maybe you’re fighting a fight that you’d rather not have to….but it could always be worse. Take a moment and genuinely appreciate what youve got.
Have a good holiday, guys.